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The Words We Speak

May 17, 2010 By Faith_Mom 8 Comments

If you have been around Moms of Faith for any length of time, then you know that the tongue, words and all related to this very important topic has been studied many times. However, there is always something new and fresh in the Word that brings even more understanding. We can never know too much Truth…God’s Truth that is…

You offspring of vipers! How can you speak good things when you are evil (wicked)? For out of the fullness (the overflow, the superabundance) of the heart the mouth speaks.

The good man from his inner good treasure flings forth good things, and the evil man out of his inner evil storehouse flings forth evil things.

But I tell you, on the day of judgment men will have to give account for every idle word they speak.

For by your words you will be justified and acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned and sentenced. - Matthew 12:34-37 (amplified)

I am not sure that we realize just how IMPORTANT the words we speak are. Every word. It does not matter if we are speaking it to ourselves or others…words are one of the most powerful forces…period. By words the entire universe was created.

The Words We Speak…

They can bring forth life or death…and WE control them. WE decide what we say and don’t say.

Let’s look deeper into the above Scriptures. Jesus was ALL Wisdom, and there is MUCH to be learned by the words He spoke. I believe that EVERY Word He spoke was of the utmost importance and value. We should study and heed all that He spoke to us!

Verse 36: You offspring of vipers! How can you speak good things when you are evil (wicked)? For out of the fullness (the overflow, the superabundance) of the heart the mouth speaks.

I looked up the original meaning of fullness which originally was abundance, and found a bit of meat….

In my New Testament Word Study, I found the original word to be; perisseuma. It means pieces left over (surplus.)

Immediately, the Lord brought a specific verse to my mind.

Casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ - 2 Corinthians 10:5 (KJV)

Do you see??

The “surplus” is what we have NOT submitted to the authority of Jesus Christ! It all starts in our minds. If we cast them down at the feet of Jesus, they will never have the opportunity to become rooted in our hearts and fly out of our fleshly mouths!

This goes for any and all negative thoughts. Self inflicted thoughts and thoughts that are geared towards others. ALL negative and/or thoughts that do not line up with what GOD’s Word say about you or others MUST be diligently placed under the authority of Jesus Christ!

How:

With your mouth!

Speak to the thought…

Example: “In the name of Jesus Christ and the Blood He shed, I command this evil thought to leave my mind. Be gone satan, in Jesus Name! I replace that thought with the love of Christ and the peace His love brings. Thank You Jesus for loving me and dying for me. You are Worthy of all glory, honor and praise. You are Kin of Kings and Lord of Lords. My strength and help in times of needs. I love You…in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen!

You will have to be diligent and do this often. YOU may even look like a fruit cake at times driving down the road and talking to yourself…no worries though…in this day and age, people with think you have blue tooth! LOL! It’s OK, if your kids see and hear…you WANT them to! We NEED to teach THEM spiritual warfare!

Why is it important to be so diligent and even…fanatical?

Well, let’s look at verse 37…

For by your words you will be justified and acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned and sentenced. - Matthew 12:34-37 (amplified)

Sure, there are those that cry “grace,” and act as if they can do and say whatever they want once saved. However, God gave me another verse with this and it is from AFTER the death and resurrection of Jesus.

Do not be deceived and deluded and misled; God will not allow Himself to be sneered at (scorned, disdained, or mocked [a]by mere pretensions or professions, or by His precepts being set aside.) [He inevitably deludes himself who attempts to delude God.] For whatever a man sows, that and [b]that only is what he will reap. – Galatians 6:7 (amplified)

VERY sobering Scripture. You will want to read the before and after verses as well…they pack quite a spiritual punch! ;)

We need to walk out our salvation with fear and trembling and not be so willy nilly with our words. They matter more than we realize!

Let’s repent right now…

Daddy God, please forgive me for every polluted word I have ever spoken up until this moment…to others…about others and to myself. I ask that you wipe me clean with the shed Blood of Your Son, Jesus Christ. I am truly sorry. Please help me to hold every thought captive and to be diligent in Your Word and putting into practice all that You teach me through Your precious Word. I love You and thank You! In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen!

Your Homework:

Start paying attention to your words! It is important that we take our lives in Christ seriously. Our words WILL be accounted for. When you fail, repent immediately! Dust yourself off and try again! Also, read Galatians chapter 6.

In His Love and Service,

Lara ;)

Copyright © Lara Velez, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





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Beware! There is a Lion Hunting You

December 7, 2009 By Faith_Mom 3 Comments

This is an awesome devotional to get you reared up and ready for some serious spiritual warfare!

1 Peter 5:8-10

8 Be well balanced (temperate, sober of mind), be vigilant and cautious at all times; for that enemy of yours, the devil, roams around like a lion roaring in fierce hunger, seeking someone to seize upon and devour.

9 Withstand him; be firm in faith [against his onset--rooted, established, strong, immovable, and determined], knowing that the same sufferings are appointed to the whole body of Christians throughout the world.

10 And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace [Who imparts all blessing and favor], Who has called you to His own eternal glory in Christ Jesus, will Himself complete and make you what you ought to be, establish and ground you securely, and strengthen, and settle you.

I would like to begin this study by digging a bit deeper into a few word meanings. We will look at the original Greek meanings.

Vigilant in verse 8 means, to watch, mindful of threatening dangers, alert in mind, take heed, beware, to guard.

Seeking, also in verse 8, means, seek after, look for, strive to find, earnestly try to find, to hunt.

Withstand in verse 9 means, to stand firm against, resist–whether in deed or word, to forbid, hinder, withstand.

Firm from verse 9 means, stable, solid, strong, immovable, and firm.

I have read these verses countless times and I always understood what they were saying. However, when I looked up those words it really came alive to me in a new way.

Let’s break it down one verse at a time.

8 Be well balanced (temperate, sober of mind), be vigilant and cautious at all times; for that enemy of yours, the devil, roams around like a lion roaring in fierce hunger, seeking someone to seize upon and devour.

We need to realize that there IS an enemy out there and he IS out to get us. I mean he is not the reason for ALL of our problems…LOL…we do have another enemy…our flesh. However, that is another devotion.

Anyway, the devil HATES God’s children with a passion. His entire existence revolves around destroying us and keeping us from God’s perfect plan for our lives. He will look for any and every opportunity he can to trip us, put doubt in our minds, and steer us in the wrong direction.

We need to be well balanced. Meaning, we need to KNOW God’s Word and who we are in Christ. How? READ and STUDY His Word. If we are in the Word daily and in prayer often we will be aware of the worms tactics. We will also have the ears to hear God’s still soft voice of warnings and direction for our lives.

If we do not live balanced, the lion WILL come and he WILL devour us. We will be defeated, worn out, confused, and living fleshly lives that are flesh controlled.

9 Withstand him; be firm in faith [against his onset--rooted, established, strong, immovable, and determined], knowing that the same sufferings are appointed to the whole body of Christians throughout the world.

When we are grounded in the Word, we will have the strength to withstand his attacks. We will be strong, immovable, stable, and firm warriors that cannot be thrown about by every gust of wind we encounter in life.

10 And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace [Who imparts all blessing and favor], Who has called you to His own eternal glory in Christ Jesus, will Himself complete and make you what you ought to be, establish and ground you securely, and strengthen, and settle you.

This is so AWESOME! You see, when we live a balanced life with God in the center…When we study and KNOW God’s Word…When we live by the spirit and not by the flesh…When we stand firm against them enemy and forbid him from wreaking havoc in our lives…

GOD…our God…the God of grace blesses us, and helps us to be all that He created us to be. He grounds us and secures us in His love. He gives us the strength and peace. He stands WITH us and we are able to be effective for HIS Kingdom and HIS Purpose in our lives.

We were created to be so much more than we are. The only thing that God wants from us is relationship. When we seek friendship and communion with Him, we are not only blessed, we are strong, secure, in His Will, and a force to be reckoned with!

Let’s Pray;

Daddy God, thank You for Your Word and the victory it gives me. Thank You for loving me and guiding me. Help me to know You better. Help me to know who You created me to be. Help me to live my life for you and a light for this dark world. Help me to recognize the enemy when he comes. Give me strength to resist. Show Truth in Your Word as seek You. Thank You for hearing my prayers. I love you Lord. In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen!

Your Homework:

If you are not 100% CERTAIN of who you are in Christ and ALL that He died then I want you to write…NOT type…write out the following Scriptures and tape them where you will see them every day. I want you to read them OUT LOUD as often as you need them and NO LESS than once a day until you KNOW them inside and out.

  • Isaiah 54:17 (protected)
  • Romans 8:37 (more than conquerors)
  • 1 Peter 2:9 (Royalty)
  • Psalm 23:4 (with us)
  • Proverbs 3:26 (confidence)

If you have clarity and pretty much think you DO know who you are in Christ, let me ask you the following questions…

1. Do you have angry outbursts? If yes, do the assignment.

2. Do read God’s Word at least 5 times a week…NOT including Church? If no, do the assignment.

3. Do you live in worry, fear, or without peace? If yes to any of these, do the assignment.

4. Do you think that you already know all this stuff and it does not apply to you? That’s pride. Do the assignment!

I think we all get the point. NONE of us have “arrived.” We can ALL…including me can use a refresher!

For Further Study and Armor:

  • Proverbs 3:5-6
  • Isaiah 42:16
  • Deuteronomy 13:4
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:8
  • Matthew 26:41
  • 1 Corinthians 10:13
  • James 3:17
  • Hebrews 12:9

Have a Week of Victory!

Copyright © Lara Velez, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


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Choose to be the Peacemaker

September 7, 2009 By Chere Williams 3 Comments

Therefore as chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love which binds them all together in perfect unity. – Colossians 3:12-14

When I became a single mom it felt as though a prize fighter knocked the wind out of me. This was not in the happy homemaker’s plan, but it was my reality. I adapted to single motherhood fairly quickly, but what took more time was developing a new relationship with the father of my daughter. Single moms must to embrace forgiveness, love, and unity if they plan on healing themselves and their family. The fracture that is caused by separation or divorce can be so painful that this may seem impossible, but remember with our Father all things are possible.

When a relationship ends between two people there is a period of adjustment, which can be a difficult and painful transition for the whole family. Through the grace of God and prayer eventually both the parents and children will become comfortable with their newly structured family situation. Inevitably you will hit a snag. That snag can be mended or it can unravel everything. The choice is yours. When disagreements occur, I urge you to refer to (Matthew 5:9), Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God. Although both people need to work at developing a new relationship, you are a child of God and it is our responsibility to be a peacemaker. Do not led pride and anger get in the way of having a healthy family.

It is imperative that we set the best example possible for our children. We are responsible for modeling godly behavior. Do you want them to see mom and dad at each other’s throat? Worse, would you want them emulating that behavior in their own relationships in the future? Remember children are great imitators. Everything we do as parents whether it is positive or negative affects them and their future. We are not showing mercy, when we argue and hold grudges. Mercy is precisely what God wants us to show to one another as stated in (Luke 6:36) May my children always be merciful, as their Father is merciful. Be a role model for your child. Be proof that even if two people are unable to come together they can still treat one another with mercy and respect.

Although the family dynamics have changed, teach your children through your actions that they are still part of a unit that cooperates and works together. We all want the best for our children regardless of our marital status. What better way to give them the best than through an example of patience, kindness, and compassion.

Most importantly incorporate forgiveness, love, and unity into the rebuilding of your family and your relationship with your ex. You must forgive as God forgave you in order to move forward into a different kind of partnership. Love one another because it is powerful and will overcome negativity. Lastly, although the family has changed, stay united. Only through a united front are we able to stand strong against the storm. Above all pray and be the peacemaker and not a participant of war, where there are no winners.

Tips for being a peacemaker in a fractured relationship:

  • Pray, Pray, and Pray- First and foremost look to God for guidance. If you have a contemptuous relationship and arguments begin with hello, pray first. Before the two of you even speak, ask God to give you the right words to say that won’t anger or provoke him. Also, try praying together when an argument begins.
  • Remember He was Created by God- Remind yourself that he is created by our Creator and is made in His image, therefore he is worthy of love and respect. When you allow your heart to soften it is difficult to be confrontational.
  • Choose your words carefully- How often do we blurt out whatever pops in our minds? Add anger to the equation and you have a nasty war of words. Before speaking, think about what you want to express and how you want to express it. Be mindful of your tone. Do you sound sarcastic or condescending? Choose your words carefully, they have a lasting impression.
  • Walk Away- If an argument ensues, disengage and walk away. Heated discussions never resolve the issue. Once you have distance from the situation, the initial anger will dissolve and you can discuss the issue calmly and with a better attitude.
  • Seek Counseling- Counseling is a wonderful way to begin the healing process. Have the whole family participate in counseling with your church clergy or a licensed family therapist. Sometimes we need an intervention to help us see matters in a different light.
  • Let God Handle It- There are times when nothing works and you have to get on your knees and hand it over to God. Let him work it out for you.

Blessed are the Peacemakers

Copyright © Chere Williams, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Love Unconditionally

July 23, 2009 By Faith_Mom 6 Comments

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and he who loves his fellowmen is born of God and is coming progressively to know and understand God [to perceive and recognize and get a better and clearer knowledge of Him]. He who does not love has not become acquainted with God does not and never did know Him, for God is love.
- 1 John 4:7-8 (Amplified)

What stood out for me here is that there are no conditions to this love. It does not say to Love “if.” It simply says to Love. We are supposed to love everyone. However, today, we are going to focus on loving our husband.

This is a VERY clear Scripture. If we are truly walking with the Lord in obedience we have no other option except to love our husbands…UNconditionally.

Notice how it does not say that this is an easy task. LOL! We all know that it is not.

This Scripture also goes against everything that this world stands for. This world operates in a very selfish manner. There is no room in marriage for love, forgiveness, and acceptance. In today’s world divorce is the norm. If your needs are being met, get a divorce…it just wasn’t meant to be. If your mate messes up, get a divorce…it was good while it lasted.

I KNOW that God NEVER intended for us to divorce. Do not misunderstand, I am sure there are times when you have no other option. I am certain though that MOST marriages that have ended in divorce are because one or both partners chose NOT to love UNconditionally. However, this lesson is not about that.

Listen to what Jesus tells the Pharisees in Matthew 19:4-8

He replied, Have you never read that He Who made them from the beginning made them male and female,

And said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be united firmly (joined inseparably) to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh

So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder (separate).

They said to Him, Why then did Moses command us to give a certificate of divorce and thus to dismiss and repudiate a wife?

He said to them, Because of the hardness (stubbornness and perversity) of your hearts Moses permitted you to dismiss and repudiate and divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been so ordained.

The last part of this verse is the most interesting; Because of the hardness (stubbornness and perversity) of your hearts

Hmmm…

Do you think if we loved UNconditionally that we would be able to “harden our hearts?” No. Love is VERY powerful. We would be compelled to forgive and remain.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily,

It is not conceited, arrogant and inflated with pride; it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].

It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness, but rejoices when right and truth prevail.

Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything without weakening.

Love never fails

Let’s Pray;

Daddy God, I would like to thank You for my husband. Thank You for every trial, tear, laugh, good times and bad. Thank You for ALL that comes with being married. Lord, I ask that You help me to learn how to love the way You love. Help me to love and forgive UNcondtionally. Help me to see my husband the way you do. Help me to walk in Love so well that when people see me they do not really see me, they see YOU. I love You, Daddy and I want nothing more than to please You in all I do and say. Thank You for loving me and forgiving me UNconditionally. In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.

Your Homework

Memorize: Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and he who loves his fellowmen is born of God and is coming progressively to know and understand God. He who does not love has not become acquainted with God does not and never did know Him, for God is love. - 1 John 4:7-8

Dig Deeper:

  1. Look up James 1:2-4 and do an in depth study on it.
  2. Look up Love, Loved, Loving in the Bible. Find the Scriptures that pertain to you and your situation. memorize as many as you can!
  3. Make real efforts to let things go and be a wive who loves UNconditionally. When you fail, get down on your knees, repent, then get up and keep trying. This world needs…NEEDS to see marriage work. They need to SEE love walked out before them. It is the ONLY way we will ever reach them…when WE walk in LOVE and shine for Jesus!

Copyright © Lara Velez, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Weeds Never Take a Vacation

July 17, 2009 By Richele McFarlin 3 Comments

So far this spring and summer, I have not picked weeds from the garden or fertilized my grass. I made a feeble attempt to plant grass seed by throwing it on the ground and hoping it takes root. I’ve just been too busy. I have a baby and three other children to tend to, I am sure you understand. After caring for them and making sure my husband has clean laundry and dinner on the table, I am tired. When I finally do get a minute I decide it’s “me” time and I pick up a book, do a scrapbook page, take a bath, check Facebook or sit and watch TV. I deserve that much, don’t I? After all, it is summer and I worked hard all year homeschooling my kids. School teachers get summer breaks and I know I am in need of a vacation. So, there’s my justification and I’m sticking to it! Uh…Right?

Today I walked in my backyard and saw what only slightly resembled a garden. As I made my way back to the garden I stepped on patches of bare lawn with grass seed only sprinkled on top. I was sad to see promising baby tomato and pepper plants stunted in growth and dry surrounded by weeds almost as tall as the plants. How did this happen? I only just planted this garden! I mean it was only…..only…well…I suppose it had been two months since I last laid eyes on it. I hung my head in shame and walked back to the house with the sound of dry grass crinkling beneath my feet. The thought struck me, “when did I last water this lawn?”

As moms we all get busy and we all need a bit of time for ourselves. Is there a mom out there that cannot understand the exhaustion that hits you like a wave at the end of the day? After seeing my garden, I realized that my heart is a spiritual garden and I wondered if that too was a testament to neglect, selfishness and given over to flesh. Our spiritual garden is also in need of daily tending and weed picking. Weeds start out so small hardly noticeable until one day they take deep root and over take the garden. Weeds can choke a fruitful plant and cause it to only produce withered useless leaves. Seeds that fall on dry unfertilized soil never grow but stay on the surface. It gives the appearance that an attempt is being made and lies to us and tells us that was enough.

We cannot allow the world to interrupt the daily weed picking in our hearts. We must remain vigilant because weeds never go on vacation but find the strength to flourish while our hearts are on vacation. This summer do not forget to water and tend to your spiritual garden amidst the demands of the world and your desire to enjoy “me” time. Yes, have some “me” time on me! However, let’s not forget to spend time with our Father God, or His Word so the weeds do not overtake our thoughts and hearts.

Copyright © Richele McFarlin, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Guard Your Mind

April 23, 2009 By Faith_Mom 3 Comments

By: Nell Bradford

So many thoughts occupy are minds at one time. Some of them are very destructive and can cause harm to ourselves or others.

For years, I let my mind think, what ever it wanted and I really didn’t pay that much attention to my thoughts. What I found out later was that, these thoughts started to manifest in different areas of my life and they caused me to make bad choices.

I didn’t know how to check the thoughts before letting them deposit.

How can I stop the wrong thoughts from going fourth in my mind?

I had to examine each thought, which would try to enter through the doorway of my mind. If the thought was not given by God, then it was denied access.

How do we know which thoughts are from God, us or the devil?

If you are having thoughts of hurting some one, taking things that do not belong to you, wanting to be the center of everyone’s attention or even manipulating some one for selfish gain; It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out where these selfish thoughts are coming from.

These are thoughts from the devil and if you let thoughts like this, take root in side of you and grow, they will lead you into destruction.

The devil was Gods minister of music and he was in charge of the music in heaven, But this was not enough for him he wanted to be the center of attention and he wanted to be praised above God.

This attitude had cost him a future in the lake of fire forever. Many of us have thoughts that will try to tempt us, but we do not have to act on these thoughts. Because if you do, they will cause strong holds in your mind.

Jesus, is a great example of how, to deal with the temptations of the devil.
The devil came to tempt Jesus in the wilderness with things that he thought, that Jesus could not do with out.(food)

When this did not work, he tried to get Jesus to commit suicide and when this failed, He offered Jesus the kingdoms of the world and the glory of them.

How did Jesus resist these temptations?

With the word of God.

Every result of any choice you make starts with a thought. Jesus mind was constantly on Gods word, and this caused him to overcome the thoughts that the devil was trying to tempt him with.

When you are faced with decisions, do you feel that you can figure it out on your own, from what you understand from the situation?

I have learned from experience that this also is a dangerous thought process.

Where could I turn to have my mind renewed?

God’s Word. I found out that, when I leaned to my own understanding, it could only take me so far and I didn’t like where I ended up, or the state of mind I had found myself in.

Inviting Jesus to come into my life and change it was the beginning of the renewal process of my way of thinking and being. When I discovered Gods word and applied it on a daily basis, the strong holds started breaking off my mind.

God’s peace and love had taken the place of confusion, worry and doubt.

Some people do not realize how important it is to guard their minds. I’m glad that I realized it before, I would have been destroyed, by my own reckless thoughts.

Beloved, guard your minds from destructive thoughts, which mission is to deliver you to the wicked one.

Blessed is the man whose mind is stayed on the Lord, his steps will be ordered by the Lord.

Copyright © Nell Bradford





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The Rising of Old Ugly

April 21, 2009 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

The old devil has many names mentioned throughout the Scriptures, but in this particular story, I’d prefer to call him old “Ugly.” And ugly he is, friend. If you have never encountered him in a full all-out spiritual warfare, you really have no idea what you are up against.

I want you to understand that he is suave and debonair. On the outside. This is the way he enters your minds and hearts. He simply finds a vacant little spot, and nudges you gently to let him reside there. Well, what could it hurt? He’s homeless.

I recently watched an episode unfold with him at the wheel. It started quite simply when a holy woman let her guard down. She became indignant and insulted when her mother passed away, and the pastor had not been able to visit her at the hospital. It never occurred to her that the pastor had not only a total care spouse to attend to, but also had taken on the care of his spouse’s mother. These ladies had to have constant care, bathing, diapering, and cooking and household cleaning chores as well. The woman allowed her hurt to provide a place for old Ugly to dwell. And dwell he did. Oh, he didn’t rear his head up often, but gently nudged the holy woman with soft words and reassurance, telling her she had every right to be upset. Why, it was unheard of for a pastor to fail to visit the sick.

Why do you think Jesus told one of his disciples to let the “dead” bury the “dead?” He wasn’t talking about physical death. He wanted those who were spiritually dead to bury the dead. Those who are alive spiritually have much work to do, and cannot spend a lot of time in grief over the passing of a loved one. But, now, Ugly disagreed.

Over the next four of five years, old Ugly reared up now and again. The woman slowly became quieter and lost some of her joy in the spirit. Once in a while he spoke something through her that began to spread like gangrene throughout the little community church. Each time a new person found something they disliked about the pastor, Ugly was secretly thrilled. He was growing, that was for sure.

You know, there is a reason that God warned us to put on the full armor of God each and every day through reading of the Scriptures and prayer. He said the old Ugly was going to and fro upon this earth, seeking whom he may devour. Oh, yes. And devour he will. Only he sneaks up on you. You don’t even know he’s there, and all of a sudden you are in the middle of the biggest spiritual warfare that’s ever been waged.

Sadly, most Christian folks are so blinded by worldly things, they don’t know what’s happened until the show is over. And the saddest part is that they have no idea that God left. See, He will fight our battles for us if we ask Him, but He is a gentleman to the max, and He never stays where He is unwanted and unnoticed.

Old Ugly is having a field day with a lot of good people right about now. Why, there is so much tongue-wagging going on, no one has time to notice that the Spirit of God has been grieved.

Friend, open your eyes. Look around you carefully. Do you see God? He is not in the Ugly. He is not in the “gossip” session operating under the pretense of a Christian women’s group. He is not in the hearts of those who enjoy hurting others. So tell me, where is He??

I plan to know always where my Shepherd is located. And where He is, there I will be also. The Lord is my Shepherd. I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures. He restoreth my soul. I love Him, and I plan to stay near Him. I find comfort in His presence. He said, “My sheep know my voice“, and I pray I will always hear His gentle whisper.

I urge you to put on the full armor today, because you are going to need it in the coming days.





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Memorizing The Word Of God

April 21, 2009 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

Are there benefits to learning Scripture verses by heart today?

In this instant world the thought of memorizing scripture verses may seem a little outdated.

There are many ways of making scripture part of your life and that is what is important if we want to have strong spiritual roots, and grow a deeper relationship with God. Having Christian music on in the day is a good way, even better worship music. Many of our worship songs are taken straight from the Bible, and are a great way of immersing our soul and spirit in God.

There was, however, a time in my life when I spent a lot of time and energy memorizing verses including the Bible reference before and after the verse.

These were my reasons:

1. If God’s word is living and active and powerful, then why not make it a deep part of me.

2. If I was sharing my faith then God’s word has way more impact than my words. The Bible has far more credibility and more than my opinions, and people could go back and read it for themselves.

3. It was a tool that I wanted to develop skill in. See 2 Timothy 2 v.15

4. I could bring to mind verses that were particularly meaningful or encouraging at times when I felt disheartened.

5. I memorized verses that God had used to speak to me about specific things that were going o in my life at the time.

I would write the verses in little cards and carry them around with me, practicing them in odd moments, until I was word perfect.

Although I do not do this so intentionally now, I have to say that the ongoing effect of doing that then, was far deeper than I had ever imagined. Even through the storms of life, I felt the impact of God’s word sown in my life taking root and producing fruit. There developed solidness in my faith that was noticed by others.

The Holy Spirit on many occasions, sometimes many years after I had memorized the verse, brought it to mind at a time when I really need it. Not only to help me, but to use it for others. I may not now remember the exact chapter and verse number, or the verse word by word, but it never takes me long to remember the sense of it and find it if there is a Bible close by. I may not have a Bible with me, but the Holy Spirit is able to bring the verse I learnt many years ago right to the front of my mind, just when I need it.

As God’s Word is one of the few things that lasts for ever, I want to put as much of it in my life as I can whatever method I use. If you sow seeds of God’s Word, you will spend your whole life time reaping it’s positive fruit in your life.
Memorization is still one of the most effective ways of doing that and I highly recommend it.

About the Author: This article was written by Barbara White, Speaker, Author. For frequent spiritual encouragement and inspiration add her Blog onto your favorites list. www.heartafterjesus.blogspot.com





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Building “Hedges” Around Your Marriage

April 21, 2009 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

Building “Hedges” around Your Christian Marriage Author interview with Nancy C. Anderson, Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome By Lisa M. Hendey

I typically “blur over” when reading books related to relationships, but Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome (Kregel, December 2004, paperback, 112 pages) by Nancy C. Anderson grabbed me from page one. This is probably due to the fact that Anderson takes time to share her own experience and marriage prior to jumping into suggestions for how you can improve yours.

In the first section of the book, we learn why Nancy calls herself a “cheater” on the opening page and we experience the strains and near break up of her own marriage. Thanks to the power of prayer, true forgiveness and the guidance of loving parents, Nancy and Ron were able to work through the challenges they faced and have now gone on to be happily married for 26 years.

Given this backdrop, the second section of the book is filled with helpful principles that will enable couples to avoid the many extramarital temptations that may crop up in even the strongest of Christian marriages. Nancy shares her ideas and wisdom in a fun, very readable fashion.

The “things to do” and “things to think about” sections at the completion of each chapter help to pull together the concepts presented and to apply them to one’s own relationship. This is a great resource for couples in all stages of marriage and equally valuable to couples either happily married or facing challenges. Invest the time to read this book and share it with your spouse.

Nancy Anderson has the following to share about her new book and safeguarding your Christian marriage.

Q: Nancy thanks so much for your time and for this great book! You start off right away by introducing yourself as a “cheater“. Why did you feel compelled to share your own experience of adultery in this book and how do you hope that this can help readers?

A: The reason I tell my story is to, hopefully, prevent it from becoming someone else’s story. I am willing to say, “I’ve been to the other side of the fence and I can tell you that the grass is NOT greener. It’s full of weeds and thorns…it’s a lie.” I want to tell couples that if they water their own marriages, they can grow a beautiful, healthy “green” relationship in their own backyard.

Q: Could you please briefly describe the six protective “hedges” we can build around our marriages to keep them intact and flourishing?

A: The H.E.D.G.E.S. are all action words, because we have to be proactive in our marriages, always rebuilding, remodeling, and reconnecting as life brings challenges that can divide us.

Hearing - Listening to your spouse is they key to unlocking their heart. People who have committed adultery often say, “My wife/husband never listened to me – they never heard me.” “The hearing ear and the seeing eye, the Lord has made both of them.” Prov. 20:12.

Encouraging - Experience the teamwork building power of a helping hand and a compliment. Focus on the positive qualities of your mate. “So then, let us aim for harmony…and try to build each other up.” Romans 14:19

Dating - Build a life that celebrates marriage. Have fun, laugh and play together. “Let your fountains be blessed. Rejoice with the wife (husband) of your youth.” Proverbs 5:18

Guarding - Establish safeguards for your relationship. Set clear boundaries, that neither of you should cross. “Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do.” Proverbs 4:23

Educating - Study your mate as if he or she was a textbook. Seek to understand and appreciate your mate’s unique qualities. “Dwell with your wife according to knowledge” 1st Peter 3:7

Satisfying - Meet each other’s needs. Ask your spouse what he or she needs from you, and then do those things. “You shall be like a well-watered Garden” Isaiah 58:11

Q: What role should faith play in the marital union? Why is commitment to a Church family so integral?

A: When I had my affair, my husband and I were lukewarm Christians who were not attending church. That lack of accountability lead to my self-deceptive thinking. I didn’t get Godly council and I took advice from non-Christians. I believed the world’s lie; “You deserve to be happy,” I sought feelings over truth and selfishness over self-control. I took God off the throne of my life and lived to please myself.

Now, with Christ as the foundation of our marriage and our church as our social and spiritual base, we stand firm and accountable to other Christians.

Q: I know that many couples who are experiencing marital challenges will benefit from their reading of your book, but why should happily married couples invest their time in reading Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome?

A: Because preventing an affair is always better than trying to recover from one. Some security firms hire reformed burglars to show them where their property is vulnerable; I can show you where your marriage may be vulnerable. Also, every husband and wife should know the warning signs that may indicate your mate
is having an affair. If you have a good marriage, this book will give you creative ways to make it great. It has many fun and practical ways to keep your marriage fresh and exciting.

Q: You discuss planting “guarding hedges” in some of the areas of one’s life where temptation might creep in – could you please say a few words about these, especially the workplace and church environments.

A: Jake and I worked together. He told me that I was funny, pretty and smart. He laughed at my jokes and bathed me in compliments. Those compliments were like magnets and I became very attracted to him. My husband was critical and rarely praised me, so I was starving for positive attention. I’m not excusing what I did, but the workplace can be a dangerous environment if you are not being “watered” at home.

Most affairs begin with a flirtation and flirting can happen anywhere, even at church. Choir members, Sunday school teachers, and committee leaders often work together at church activities, and that can lead to trouble if the relationship becomes too personal. We have to guard our hearts, even at church. If you
are attracted to someone, stay away, and don’t allow an inappropriate bond to form – we are told to flee temptation.

Q: Thanks again for your time. What do you feel is the single most important factor in creating and maintaining a successful marriage?

A: For me it has been the friendship factor. I not only love my husband, I like him. Our relationship is not just based on passion and romance, it’s deeper than that. Those things may come and go during the years, but our friendship, trust and devotion are stronger and more stable that our emotions. Love based on caring for each other and a firm commitment to Christ is described in Ecclesiastes 4:12b where is says that a three-stranded cord is not easily broken. If you love God, and each other, in thought word and deed, your three-stranded-marriage will survive and thrive.

For more information on Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome visit:
www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/082542013x/catholicmomcom

About the author: Lisa M. Hendey, wife, mother and webmaster of www.catholicmom.com and www.christiancoloring.com is an avid reader and writes from Fresno, California. Visit her at www.lisahendey.com for more information.





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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