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Fun and Easy Crafts for Toddlers

August 2, 2010 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

Getting a toddler to sit still can be a near-impossible feat. They’re constantly exploring the world around them. That’s a good thing, but sometimes they need some creative downtime. That’s where toddler crafts come in. Crafts are great for toddlers for a number of reasons. It can help them develop longer attention spans. Most crafts help develop hand-eye coordination. And young children can benefit from learning how to follow simple instructions.

Craft ideas that your toddler can do (with supervision)

Craft Stick Puppets

Puppets are fascinating to toddlers. Creating their own puppets is easy, and it’s lots of fun. All you really need are some craft or Popsicle sticks, construction paper, safety scissors, markers and glue.

Help your toddler cut animal shapes out of construction paper. They can draw faces and other details with washable markers. Glue the stick to the back of the shape, let dry, and then your little one will be ready to put on a puppet show. If you want to make more elaborate puppets, try cutting shapes out of foam. Glue on a pom pom for the nose, and add some googly eyes.

Paint with Pudding

Little ones love to finger paint! Unfortunately, it can be really messy. And there’s also the concern about them eating the paint. Even if the paints are nontoxic, it can make cautious parents uneasy. The solution? Let them paint with pudding!

You don’t need different flavors to make different colors. Just use one serving of plain vanilla pudding, divide it up into small portions, and add food coloring to create various shades. Give your child a paper plate to use as a canvas for their masterpiece. When finished, they can eat it with no worries.

Design a T-Shirt

If your toddler sees you sewing or painting clothes with fabric paint, they may want to try designing clothes themselves. However, needles are small and sharp, and fabric paint is messy. What to do? Break out the markers!

Children can have a blast decorating a plain white t-shirt with colorful markers. If you use washable ones, they can create a design, wear it, and start over after you wash the shirt. If a permanent design is desired, however, you’ll have to let him use non-washable markers. You can avoid a mess by covering the work area with newspaper and putting a smock on your toddler.

Placemats

Making place-mats out of contact paper is very easy. Have your toddler cut shapes out of construction paper and glue them onto a whole piece with a glue stick. They can add detail with markers or embellish with stickers. When they are done, place the artwork on a piece of contact paper, sticky side up. Place another sheet of contact paper on top, sticky side down.

Most toddlers will only have the patience to make one place mat at a time. However, this is the activity that keeps on giving! LOL! They can make another one tomorrow, and the next day…continuing until there are enough for the whole table. Your little one will be so proud to know that everyone sees their artwork at every meal!

Crafts can help your toddler learn important skills while keeping him quietly occupied.





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101 Creative Ideas to Keep Kids Busy WITHOUT TV, Technology, Media or…Dare I say it…Video games!

June 10, 2010 By Faith_Mom 10 Comments

With summer vacation beginning, many parents may be wondering what to do to keep their kids busy during the school break. These tips are great for any time of year, however, and a few will even work for winter! The reason I took the time to come up with one hundred ideas was to help parents connect with their children AND keep kids busy without using television and video games as a means of entertainment. I strongly believe that media, video games and television are terrible for kids…especially when over used by parents as a means of keeping their kids occupied. Sure, there are times it is OK or even a great thing…however, in this techno crazy time we live in, it is WAY overdone and kids do not even play or use their God-given imagination anymore!

Anyway, use what works for you and your family. There are tips for just the kids, you with the kids, older and younger working together and family stuff too! Obviously, some are age specific and others gender specific. However, there are enough ideas listed that any Mom can find several to use and keep her children busy!

101 Tips to Keep you Children Busy without the use of Media and Technology

Note: please use caution and common sense with any activity. Make sure the activities you let your children do are age appropriate. Make sure there is proper supervision. Most important, PAY attention! Safety, caution and awareness is to be used at all times with our children.

1. Play-Doh or Clay. This is an awesome way to keep toddlers and school age children busy. You can give them an “assignment” to create something specific, give them cool tools to use, or just let their own imaginations go wild. Even some teenagers can enjoy this activity if they have younger siblings to do it with.

2. Finger Paint. This is fun…especially for younger children and elementary age kids. Be sure and put newspaper or some other alternative down to keep area they will play in clean. Get large sheets of finger paint friendly paper and let them go hog wild. This is also a great activity for outside.

3. Make them play in their room. Yes, it is OK for kids to play in their rooms with their TOYS. LOL!

4. Blow Bubbles. This is fun, indoors or out. Let them be creative when trying to find ways to make big bubbles.

5. Encourage outside play as often as possible. Of course, be safe and make sure your children are supervised. Playing outside is sadly a forgotten past time for many of today’s techno driven children. Just get them outside running and playing…sweating and good old fashioned hard playing is good for building strong bones and healthy lifestyles!

6. Music. Turn on some praise music, or other clean…but still enjoyable music and let them dance around the house. If you have a few kids…or even two, they can play musical chairs. :) This is the only idea with some sort of techno usage.

7. Read. If they can read, give them books to read on a regular basis. It is important that they read…often. If your kids are too young to read themselves, read to them…daily. Also, a good picture book will keep little non readers busy. :)

8. Write a story. This is a fun one to do with your young children…older ones too. However, if you need a little break and you have both age groups, have your older child(ren) make up fun stories with the little ones.

9. Act out the story they create in #8. After they write a story, if possible, let them put on a show for you. Make pop corn, invite the grandparents and make it an in house “Broadway” event! They are sure to feel special!

10. Mad Libs are a fun things to do and great for all ages. :)

11. Bake. You can use the older younger option with this one as well…better yet, Mom, get in the kitchen with them and have fun!

12. Make cards. This is great for holidays, get well, birthdays or just for fun. You can also have them make cards for the elderly or sick kids in the hospital and go with them to hand deliver. Another idea is to make them for soldiers!

13. Chores. LOL…yes, give them chores. Daily, weekly and seasonal. Chores are good for kids and help them learn to do things properly and be responsible. I am shocked at how many of my teenage daughters friends do not have chores. LOL. She thinks I am nuts, but I say chores are good! Kids should learn to work hard, be helpful and be doers! Little ones can do chores too…just keep them age appropriate and within their abilities. :)

14. Dress Up. My 6 year old daughter is a dress up queen. She LOVES to dress up. We have a friend with a son who dresses up too. He is super heroes of course, LOL, but hey, it occupies his time just as much as my princess dresser! This is a great activity for both genders. I would even let them raid your closet for shoes and cool outfits…of course nothing too expensive in case something happens.

15. Scrapbook a recent fun day. You can buy one of those scrapbook kits, or just pull out what you have. Get pictures developed from a recent fun time and let them create a scrapbook. You will need to help them with cutting and gluing  if they are younger, but let them be creative. :)

16. Do a science project. This is great for learning and keeping busy. Visit the local library and find a book with age appropriate ideas and get busy!

17. Practice an instrument. If you have children who are learning to play an instrument, have them practice more. Or better yet, put on a special concert for the family!

18. Take a bath. This requires supervision…especially for non swimmers and younger children. However, a warm bath with some fun toys is a great way to wind kids down!

19. Go swimming. If you have a pool, let the kids go swimming (again , supervision for those who need it). If you do not have a pool, schedule a day for you and some friends with kids to go to a local pool and have fun!

20. Turn on the sprinklers. Nothing says fun like running around in the sprinklers on a hot day. Slip and slide and soap fun with the hose will work too!

21. Walk the dog. If you have a dog, let the kids walk it. It teaches responsibility and keeps them busy.

22. Play board games. Good old fashioned fun plain and simple!

23. Ride bike.

24. Skateboard, roller skate or rollerblading are fun to do.

25. Sledding in the winter is a fun time killer too.

26. Draw. Pull out some paper, crayons, colored pencils, etc. Let them draw on their own or give them ideas.

27. Dust. Little ones LOVE to dust…at least mine did! LOL! Give them a duster and let them dust your furniture and such.

28. Charity. Have them go through their toys and find things to give to less fortunate kids then themselves.

29. Let them have their own garage sale with old stuff they no longer use. Take them for ice cream, or something with the money they earn!

30. Summer business. Help them create a neighborhood lemonade stand, snow cones, or whatever. Use it as an opportunity to teach them how to handle money. Tithe, save and spend.

31. Play with pets. If they have a pet(s), make them PLAY with it!

32. Feed their pets. Yes, they need reminding. LOL!

33. Plant an herb garden. This can work even if you do not have a yard…just use pots. Once their herbs begin to grow, use them to make a special dinner together.

34. Color. The dollar store and dollar section at Target sell huge coloring books…cheap. Buy some and let them color. Better yet, color with them.

35. Scavenger hunt. Create one yourself, or enlist a teenager to help you. Make it fun and some sort of goody at the end.

36. Go to the park.

37. Go to the beach.

38. Hula Hoop. Super fun and to make it even more fun, use more than one! Have a “competition.”

39. Backyard Olympics. This is good for getting several children together. Invite some friends over, pot luck lunch style or BBQ. Set up some games for healthy competition (age appropriate). Give fun medals to the winners…and even something for the losers. You can even have the kids help with planning and let them make the “medals,” with foil, yarn and markers.

40. Jump rope.

41. Mow the lawn. this is a great option for older kids. You can also encourage them to make it a summer neighborhood business.

42. Puppet show. Get out those old socks you know will never see their match again, markers, squiggly eyes and whatever else you can come up with. Help them create cute sock puppets and let them put on a puppet show! Another great reason to get the grandparents over.

43. Play tag.

44. Play a sport. Get them involved in some sort of sport.

45. Puzzles. These can take hours depending on age and how many pieces. Great activity.

46. Take a nap. We all know little ones are MUCH nicer when they get a nice nap! LOL!

47. Do homework or study. During school, make sure they spend enough time doing homework and studying.

48. Take pictures. Buy a cheap disposable camera and give it to your little one. Tell them to find things to take pictures of. You can make it educational too. Have them look for specific colors, sounds, letters, etc.

49. Make jewelry. This can be simple with yarn and beads, or more complicated with wires and tools. It all depends on your child’s age and abilities.

50. Paint nails. If you have girls, let them paint their nails.

51. Hopscotch.

52. Chalk. Let them go hog wild on the driveway or sidewalk.

53. Quiet time. Yes, it is OK to just have quiet time. You can play the quiet game!

54. Play catch.

55. Simon says. This can be a lot of fun.

56. Paper Mache.

57. Create a collage. You can use what you have around the house, or go for a walk and find things to make a nature collage…whatever you can think up.

58. Play cards. This can be done with you, each other if you have more than one child, or, teach them to play solitaire.

59. Build fort. They can do this indoors or out. Outside may require Dad. However, some old boxes from a local store can work wonders. Inside they can use sheets and chairs…whatever.

60. Start a club. They can start their own club. Princess club, super here club, or something more mature for older ones.

61. Race. Have them race outside. Make it fun. Have them do different kids of races…maybe holding an egg on a spoon, backwards, somersaults…use your…er…let them use their imaginations!

62. Make a care package. This is great if you know someone sick…or take one to a terminally ill children’s hospital.

63. Volunteer. This is a great idea for the whole family.

64. Exercise. It’s good for children too…and if Mom gets involved she may just lose some flab! ;)

65. Origami. You may need a book for this one.

66. Journal. Teach them to journal. It is a good way for them to learn to process and analyze their thoughts and feelings. It can also be a creative writing journal.

67. Dictate. I do this with my 6 year old. Give your child a special notebook. While you are working around the house, cooking, whatever, have them pull out the book. Dictate words for them to write. This is a great way to teach spelling and reinforce phonics. Keep the words within their capability of course!

68. Dry flowers.

69. Play with Lego’s or blocks.

70. Do a craft.

71. Make paper air planes. Race them!

72. Make rubbings. This is great for after a walk with things like leaves you find. However, you can also use what is around the house. Example: place newspaper on table. Put item to be rubbed on it…like a leaf. Place white computer paper or some other paper over it. Use crayon and rub (color) over it. The details from the leaf will show up on the paper. You can use just about anything…leaves, coins, etc.

73. Earlier I mentioned doing mad libs…another idea is to have them make up their OWN!

74. Wash the dog.

75. Talent show. Have them organize and put on a neighborhood talent show.

76. Or an art show.

77. Raise money. Help them come up with ways to raise money for the church or local charity. This teaches them to think and care for others.

78. Plant a tree.

79. Join a book club…or start one.

80. Grow a bonsai.

81. Home Depot. Many Home Depot’s host monthly craft days for kids. They are free or low cost and the kids go home with something cool they made! The one in our town has made bird houses, door hangers and many other cool things with the kids. Call your local Home Depot to find out.

82. Fly a kite.

83. Take a family road trip.

84. Rake the leaves.

85. Build a snowman, snow angels, just play in the snow in the winter.

86. Have a snowball fight.

87. Make a picture book of favorite things. You may need to help them out, but this can be a fun activity.

88. Help cook. Give them a job to do to help you make dinner.

89. Play school. Have your child get their stuffed animals out and teach them what they are learning in school.

90. Take a media free vacation.

91. Make Popsicles with juice.

92. Create a bird feeder and have them bird watch. They can make an easy bird feeder with an old soda bottle and bird seeds, or even use peanut butter and birdseed. Google easy to make bird feeder online for some ideas. After it is made, have them watch for what kind of birds come to eat. You can even make it a project for older kids…maybe statistic of what kind of bids come…Be creative. Think outside the box.

93. Memorize Scripture. This is probably one of the most important things they can ever learn to do!

94. Read the Bible. As Christian Moms, we need to help our children make this choice, so when they grow up, they will do it on their own!

95. Act out a favorite story.

96. Creative eating. Pull out some fruit, sprinkles, pretzel sticks, raisins, etc. Sit them down and have them make silly animals to eat as a snack.  They will not only have fun making them, they will have something healthy to eat!

97. Refrigerator magnets. When you are busy in the kitchen and cannot use the kids for help, throw some magnets on the fridge and let them play with them. It will keep them close by and busy.

98. Chalk board paint. Paint an area in their rooms or the play room with chalk board paint. Let them make a different picture each day that represents what the weather is outside.

99. Tye die. Shirts, socks, whatever.

100. Make a shirt. Go to the local craft store and buy a plain white shirt and different tools for writing/decorating cloth with. Make shirts. You can do this for holidays, special occasions, praise the Lord shirts, family vacations, etc. It is fun and time consuming.

101. Go on a nature walk.

Well, I hope these 100 tips give you something to think about. I am certain that you will be able to use many of the ideas above…or even your own versions of them! And, keep in mind…most of these ideas can be modified to fit your child’s age and capabilities.

If you have any other idea, please post them in a comment below to share with your fellow Moms of Faith! Either way, enjoy your kids, spend time with them while they are still with you, and help them enjoy life without an overabundance of media and technology!

Copyright © Lara Velez, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





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We Must Stop the Sexualization of our Little Girls

June 9, 2010 By Chere Williams 14 Comments

“Mom, that isn’t sexy,” whined the six year old girl standing near me in the children’s clothing department of a well known retailer’s store. Did this adorable six year old with pony tails, just say the word sexy? Yes, to my unfortunate surprise the word sexy came out of her mouth about a very mini jean skirt that was to mature for her first grade body. Her mom shockingly responded with, “Well, keep looking.” When did it become acceptable for a child to look for sexy clothing?

This disturbing trend is frighteningly common in today’s society. More retailers are putting clothes on their shelves that are completely inappropriate for young girls. It seems as though society is pushing our girls to look older, act older, and become mini women. Even when shopping for my four year old daughter’s Halloween costume I was appalled at the selection of “sexy’ costumes for preschoolers.

Christian parents have their work cut out for them, actually all parents do. Girls, especially, are being targeted through media, retail, and Internet. The Bible tells us not to let the world pollute our life. As adults, it is our responsibility to protect our children, to use discernment, and to say no when necessary. The world is not a friend to our children, but it is enticing and that is where parents need to step in, take control, and ensure that their children remain children.

Some may argue the inappropriate clothing, the toys such as Bratz dolls, and the television shows that glorify young girls being sexy and leading rather adult lives is not harmful, that we should just get over it because that’s life. We need to remember that children are impressionable, girls are under tremendous peer pressure to be the prettiest, the thinnest, and to be appealing to the opposite sex, all the outside influences DO influence them.

I recently saw a video publicized Online, as did many of you I am sure, of scantily dressed seven year olds dancing provocatively to a popular R&B song was not cute. It was disturbing. These girls are under the supervision of adults who should know better and want better for their girls. The pageants with toddlers dressed like twenty-four year olds is really quite sad. If they are in a children’s pageant why are they wearing heavy makeup and dressed in adult outfits? If the pageant is for toddlers dress them as toddlers. Why are parents and society pushing our little girls to loose their innocence?

Moms and dads can stop the sexualization of our girls, by being parents who aren’t afraid of being parents. The girls aren’t buying the sexy clothes at six or sixteen, parents are shelling out the dollars to invest in an industry that preys off of young girls. If your daughter has a job and purchases something you find too provocative, take it back. Remember we have control of what is allowed in our home.

When you’re faced with your daughter wanting to buy an outfit that is inappropriate. My advice is say, “No,” firmly. But, don’t stop at saying no, explain to your daughter why wearing those clothes are inappropriate for her age and the reason you won’t buy them. We have a choice as consumers and parents to not perpetuate the sexualization of our girls, make a statement and don’t buy into what they are selling. Monitor the television shows, the Facebook accounts, the Internet consumption and make no apologies about it.

As Christian parents it is crucial to instill the Biblical principals, values, and morals in our home that stay with our children after they leave the safety of home. It is okay to teach our girls to be modest, to have respect for their bodies, to be different and not follow the crowd, it isn’t old fashioned it is godly. Do I think we can shelter our girls from the world? No, but we can use wisdom about the choices we make for our children and teach them to make choices that honor God and themselves.

Copyright © Chere Williams, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Loving Parenting For The Greater Good

April 29, 2010 By Tammy 4 Comments

Do you remember something your parents wouldn’t let you do when you were a young child?  Wow, I have several! I sure thought my parents were the meanest pair of people that walked the earth. It was a time when everyone (but me of course), was allowed to stay out past dark. When the street lights came on, was my cue to come in and stay in. I remember that just like it was yesterday, when in reality, it was a very long time ago. I sure couldn’t understand why they wouldn’t let me do it too??

Not until after I had a child of my own did I understand their point of view. They were not being mean, they simply didn’t want anything to happen to me, they cared about me. And they were looking out for my own good.

I thank God for their love each and every day. Even though my mother has passed, there’s not a day that goes by when she doesn’t cross my mind. And to think there are so many kids that don’t have a mom and dad and are handed from one foster family to another. You are truly blessed if you have parents, especially if they are still alive.

If you are a mom, take extra time to be with your little ones and teach them all about life, love, laughter, and family. Later on down the road, (more than likely after having their own kids), they will respect, love, and thank you for it.

Also take a careful look and ponder your current parenting skills. Do you think you’re being the best parent you can be? Think about it, you are being tested from the day your first child is born. It’s the biggest adventure you’ll ever encounter, and also the most wonderful.

Your children don’t come with a book of instructions. To answer the question above, your parenting skills come from within, they come from your gut instincts. Have faith in yourself as a parent. Always follow your heart and instincts at what you think are the best choices for your kids. By doing this, you are looking out for your children’s greater good, and also molding them into passionate, responsible adults.

Copyright © Tammy Embrich , Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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101 Tips to Become a Better Mom of Faith

April 13, 2010 By Faith_Mom 6 Comments

Let’s face it, Motherhood is the most stressful job in the world. As Christian Moms, the task can be even more tedious as we strive to tech them moral values, to love and seek Daddy God, and how to walk in love in a world filled with sin, selfishness and hate.

As Moms, we pour our lives into our children and then hope they will at least call or write on occasion throughout their adult lives.

These tips are meant to show our kids that we love them, value them and believe in them. They are to help us all be better Mothers. The more we strive to be the most excellent Mom we can be the better our chances are of seeing our children grow into the well rounded, morally sound, Biblically aligned, God loving adults we hope for them to be!

Note: We also have archives of Mommy Tips that can be very helpful as well.

101 Tips to Become a Better Christian Mom

1. Smile more. Believe it or not our children need smiles from us…not scowls!

2. Make eye contact when communicating with them.

3. Read to them. Even when they get older, read Scriptures out loud. Even older children like this.

4. Do devotions together…age appropriate, of course.

5. Do a project together. This can be arts and crafts or a school project.

6. Help them with their homework.

7. Cook or bake with them.

8. Create family traditions. They not only help bring the family together, they also provide stability and opportunity to keep the family together.

9. Listen more.

10. Ask more.

11. If you are married, honor your husband. This is vital for your children to see. Strive to be a better wife and pray for ways to improve your marital relationship.

12. Pray with them.

13. Pray for them.

14. Get silly.

15. Laugh at yourself.

16. Go to the movies together and see what they want. (morally and age appropriate)

17. Have a girls night. (Moms of daughters)

18. Have a date night. (Moms to sons)

19. Try new things and activities together.

20. Play with them.

21. Have a tickle fest. You are never to old to be tickled!

22. Say ” I love you” often. Do not assume they know. SAY it. A LOT.

23. Speak positive words over them and to them.

24. Criticize less.

25. Live by example.

26. Read the Bible to them and in front of them. They need to SEE you have a personal walk with Jesus. They will only do what they have learned.

27. Take lots of pictures. They love to look at old pictures and see the memories and ways you took the time to capture the moments.

28. Scrapbook their lives.

29. Attend their important event and activities. It means a lot when you are in the stands cheering them on!

30. Write them a love letter.

31. Make their favorite dinner for no reason.

32. Cheer for them. We need to be their biggest fans in life. Make sure they KNOW it!

33. Encourage them.

34. Hug them.

35. Kiss them.

36. Put little “thinking of you” notes in their lunch box.

37. Leave a special prize where they are sure to find it when doing their chores or other activity.

38. Allow them to mess up.

39. Forgive them.

40. Apply 38 and 39 to yourself as well. You will never be perfect. There are NO such things as perfect Mothers!

41. Encourage open communication. They need to know they can talk to you and share without fear of your reaction.

42. Let them be individuals. Do not try to live your dreams through them. LET THEM BE THEM!

43. Dream with them.

44. Encourage them to go after their dreams.

45. Be consistent in discipline.

46. Hold them accountable.

47. Reward them for a job well done.

48. Dedicate a song to them on the radio.

49. Compliment them often. We are responsible for teaching them good self esteem.

50. Bring them to church.

51. Get them involved in church.

52. Encourage a life of excellence. Teach them to do well and not settle for mediocre.

53. Teach them to appreciate learning and the importance of a good education.

54. Encourage creativity.

55. Tell the truth. If they hear you lie or you lie to them…they will lie.

56. Expect honesty from them.

57. Teach them the importance of Scripture memorization.

58. Apologize when you mess up. They deserve an apology when needed.

59. Support them.

60. Accept them.

61. Know their friends and parents of friends.

62. Keep track of what they do and who they are with.

63. Nurture their relationship with their dads. It is important that our kids have a relationship with their dad that is separate from ours.

64. Go on trips and vacations as a family…big and small.

65. Have family fun nights.

66. Make them feel special all year long…not just on special occasions.

67. Provide boundaries.

68. Encourage them to have personal boundaries.

69. Follow through.

70. Give them chores. Our daughters need to learn how to be good wives and our sons need to learn how to be helpful husbands.

71. Respect their privacy. (Unless you feel they are in danger)

72. Give them age appropriate responsibilities.

73. Teach them how to resolve conflict.

74. Spend time with them one on one…this is especially important with multiple children.

75. Help them develop a spiritual life.

76. Put them in a youth group at church.

77. Never take ANY church activity away from them as a form of punishment for bad behavior. Even if it is a fun event. It is still with their Christian peers and leaders. They may get convicted and/or it will allow God to work on their hearts. They NEED church.

78. Volunteer as a family.

79. Encourage giving.

80. Learn their love language and love them accordingly.

81. Lighten up!

82. Make a family time capsule and put a time limit on it of about 5 years…that is long enough…you want them still home when you open it! Talk about it…laugh and remember. Great bonding experience.

83. Prioritize them. They need to be a top priority in your life. First comes God (not ministry…relationship)…then husband (if married), then they are next. They need to see they are important…BUT…if married they also need to see that you are lined up Biblically and united with husband.

84. Do not give them everything they want. That can be very dangerous.

85. Teach them to be thankful for what they have.

86. Teach them good work ethics. Encourage hard work.

87. Involve them.

88. Teach moral values. Use the Word of God as your standard…not the world.

89. Pray for their friendships and future spouse.

90. Teach them good hygiene. LOL! Yes…I think it is important!

91. Promote healthy eating and fitness.

92. Yell less.

93. Say “thank you” more.

94. Never take them for granted.

95. Cherish them and your moments together…you only get so many.

96. Pick them up when they fall.

97. Let them vent.

98. Love them unconditionally.

99. Be available when they need you.

100. Limit media influence. The world we live in is a mess. Be vigilant in what you allow into their eyes, ears and hearts.

101. Repeat 1-100 as often as possible!

I hope these tips encourage you to be all that you were created to be as a Mother. God loves us SO much and gave us the precious gifts of our children…let’s be good stewards with the lives He entrusted us with!

Copyright © Lara Velez, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Enjoy the Open Road

April 12, 2010 By Chere Williams Leave a Comment

One of my favorite past times when I was single was taking road trips. There was nothing like driving down an open road on a warm summer day with the windows down and the tunes playing. Now that I have a permanent passenger beside myself road trips are even more enjoyable. Road trips are a great time for families to bond, create memories, and start new traditions. Kids and adults love an adventure, this year as the weather begins to get warmer plan a few family road trips for guaranteed fun. Try these tips to keep road trips interesting for the whole family.

Do Your Research
Thanks to technology road tripping has never been easier. First decide on the length of your trip, do you want to go for a weekend, a week, or a month? Where do you want to go? If you have smaller children you may want to stick to a short trip. Do you want the trip to be educational? You may want to take a trip to our nation’s capital. Think about what you want your family to get from the trip. Next research the attractions, kid friendly hotels, and events in the area. If there is a special event you may want to plan your trip around it.

Prepare Nutritious Snacks for the Road
It is tempting to stop at fast food joints along the way, but the whole family will benefit if they have healthy snacks to munch on rather than greasy fries. Grab some zip lock bags, fresh fruit and nuts and make individual baggies for each family member. Bring a cooler for sandwiches and pack plenty of water.

Make a Music CD
Have each member of your family compile their favorite songs and burn them on a CD or let each member bring a few CDs of their choice. This allows everyone to have a chance to listen to their favorite tunes.

Don’t Forget to Record What Happens Inside the Car
Some of the best memories are created inside the car! Remember to take pictures and video not only of the scenery but all of the memorable and funny moments that your family shares inside the car.

Pack Light
Pack light and don’t get weighed down by a bunch of extras. Bring clothes that are comfortable and are necessary for your trip. Pack an overnight bag with everyone’s pajamas, toothbrush, and a change of clothes if you are stopping off at one hotel and don’t feel like carrying all of your luggage in for one night. Remember to pack a first aid kit and keep extra blankets and pillows in the car for a quick nap.

Keep The Kids Occupied
Mom are we there yet? This may sound like a broken record after a few hours so it is in your best interest to keep them occupied! Bring games, books, along with coloring books for the little ones, sing songs, and give them their own miniature maps so they can see where they are at without always asking you.

Keep Everyone Involved
Once you research your trip talk to your family about the different attractions. Have each family member choose one thing they want to do on the trip and make sure you do it. This keeps everyone involved and having fun.

Scrapbook Your Road Trip
Road trips create memories that last a lifetime. After the trip gather the family together for a night of scrapbooking and relive all the good times! This is a great way for families to record those precious moments together.

The most important thing to remember is to have a sense of adventure! Do the research but also don’t plan every detail. Some of the best treasures are those we don’t plan for. Stop on the unbeaten path and the little towns along the way. There are so many hidden nooks and crannies in this beautiful country of ours waiting to be discovered, so whether it is a two hour drive from your home or a twelve hour drive, pack the car, sing some tunes and enjoy the open road with the ones you love.

Copyright © Chere Williams, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


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Get Prepared and Spend Quality Time With Your Family

March 31, 2010 By Chere Williams 2 Comments

Once upon a time four years ago pre mommy-hood I had more hours in the day than I needed. Rarely was I stressed about grocery shopping, laundry, or errands in general. Life was carefree and many evenings were spent browsing bookstores, attending art events, and enjoying the city I lived in. Much has changed in four years! You can still find me in the book aisle and at museums, but now it is with my daughter in tow. The big difference is my week has become much more stressful. It is crucial that you don’t allow stress to take a toll on your mental and physical health. Our body is our temple and God doesn’t want us to be frazzled 24 hours a day. Efficiency is key if you want to keep your sanity!

Quick tips to make your week run smoother

Morning Preparation

Begin your morning on a good note, get prepared and eliminate morning craziness! I am not a morning person unless I am on vacation. I quickly learned that a little preparation the night before can save me from a huge headache in the morning.

Try these timesavers:

  1. Prepare lunches the night before. This will save you at least ten-fifteen minutes depending upon the number of children you have.
  2. Choose your clothes and the kids clothes in the evening. Pick out your clothes have them ironed and ready to wear. If you really want to be prepared, on Sunday prepare your wardrobe for the whole week. If your kids know what they are wearing they have little reason to fuss. The less decision making the better.
  3. Keep keys, book bags, and coats in a designated area. Make sure the homework is in the book bag the night before. Having a designated area for these items makes getting out of the house a quicker process.
  4. Create a check list. If you still find yourself forgetting things, make a checklist the night before and hang it by the door. Before you leave take a quick glance to make sure you have everything.

Week Preparation

If you are able to prepare for your week you are already way ahead of the game.

Here are a few ideas on how to better prepare for the week.

  1. Plan Your Meals. Carve out an hour in the week to plan the following week’s meals. There are a ton of great websites that offer quick and easy recipes that are nutritious and affordable. When you plan your meals you’ll save money when grocery shopping.
  2. Choose a Day for Grocery Shopping. Pick one day and do your grocery shopping for the week. Arm yourself with a list, coupons, and of course reusable bags and cut out unnecessary trips to the grocery store.
  3. Designate Laundry Days- Try to limit yourself to doing laundry twice a week and if possible once a week. Of course there will be exceptions to this rule especially if you have a baby or a sick child. But by doing your laundry once or twice a week, you’ll miss that dreadful build up of dirty clothes.
  4. Fill up the Gas Tank- If possible don’t let your gas tank fall below a half tank of gas. Once a week fill up your gas tank so you aren’t running on empty during the week and making additional stops to fill up the tank. Also if you don’t let it fall below a half tank you’ll save yourself some money.
  5. Take 15-20 Minutes to Clean a Room- There are some chores that are daily, like washing dishes, maybe taking out the garbage, and a few others. Do a 15-20 minute sweep around the house. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you can tidy up. Set a timer and get a workout in by picking up mail, magazines, or doing a quick sweep or dusting of furniture.

My life has done a complete 360, but I couldn’t be happier. I realized that being a present mother always takes precedence over the little details that bombard me throughout the day. I also learned that through preparation I am able to spend quality time with my daughter and if lucky even sneak in a quick matinee on a Sunday afternoon all by myself. Be efficient and learn what works for you and your family. Remember don’t be afraid to ask for help and if you can afford it don’t be afraid to hire help if it allows you to gain a few extra hours with God, your family, and yourself.

Copyright © Chere Williams, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Thrifty Craft Supplies That Spark Imagination

March 30, 2010 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

By: Andrea Bullock

A healthy stash of craft supplies can make the rainiest of days seem sunny summer play days for kids of all ages. Yes, the big kids in the world enjoy doing all manner of crafts as well. The problem is that craft supplies do not necessarily run on the cheap side. If consumers aren’t careful the price tag for that sunshine in a craft box can add up quickly.

A few great craft supplies that are small on budget and big on fun

Old Buttons

Children grow out of clothes fast. Adults outgrow clothes over time in a way no adult cares to face in the mirror. Clothes get ruined, go out of style, shrink (wink, wink), and sometimes do not look as good in the mirror as they did on the hanger. Many of these clothes hit the garbage pile without a second glance-buttons still attached.

But, take a few seconds to make a snip here and there with a pair of scissors and those buttons can become eyes for mismatched sock puppets, noses for hapless snowmen in winter months, or even the windows to the soul for one giant purple people eater on paper. Little girls love stringing buttons together to make bracelets and necklaces. They can become the centerpiece for beautiful fairy flowers and even be glued to picture frames for a little added pop or pizzazz.

Don’t discard another article of clothing without first checking for buttons. Additionally, thrift stores and garage sales will often have large packages of buttons on sale for a steal. Check them out if help is needed getting a fantastical button collection started.

Recycled Goods from the Kitchen

Take a look around the kitchen for a moment and think with the mind of a crafter. Paper towel rolls can become pirate looking glasses. Egg cartons can be transformed into a garden of flowers, and potato chip cans may be transformed into musical instruments or rain sticks.

Empty coffee cans provide a wide range of crafty pleasure including gift tins that can be filled with small treasures for friends who are shut in; organizational tools to hold pens, paperclips, etc.; or a beautiful bird feeder for neighborhood birds.

Thrift and Second-hand Stores

Another great source for frugal but crafty ideas, that all but guarantee indoor fun for all ages, is the local thrift store. There are tons of great bargains on craft kits and supplies that can be mixed and match for even more crafty pleasure. The idea is to find a wide range of supplies that are versatile and encourage creativity.

The real beauty about thrift or second-hand stores is that many of the items are in mint condition. They are simply the unwanted castoffs of another crafter who created too large a stash of supplies.

A Walk around the Neighborhood

Children are amazing creatures. Perhaps it’s the nearness to the ground but children can spot all sorts of neat craft supplies that most adults would miss just by walking outside. With the right child, a blade of grass could become a paintbrush.

Simple things that can be found without paying a penny for crafting include things most adults pass by every day without a second glance. Pine cones, river rocks, sticks, and leaves are all fabulous crafting tools that won’t break the budget.

Crafting can be very expensive if people allow it to be. It doesn’t have to be. There are too many great bargains available to crafters to limit personal pleasure due to budgetary constraints. During these troubling economic time who couldn’t use a little crafty sunshine?

Andrea Bullock is a freelance writer for Crafts for Kidlets, a fun craft idea blog for moms and dads who need something creative for the kids to do. http://www.craftsforkidlets.com





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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Family Project to Decrease Attitude and Increase Graditude

March 24, 2010 By Richele McFarlin 2 Comments

A home filled with children is sure to have its share of snide comments, complaints, whines, insults, and disruptions.  My children are not perfect.  Each have done their share of complaining, whining and sadly insulting one another.  Children are egocentric so they rarely think of how their words affect another person.  However, if this behavior continues without proper guidance it will become habitual.  Soon the only thing holding your children together is a bond of insulting behavior.   Kids are exposed to sibling rivalry in the shows they watch on TV.  Often siblings flinging insults are considered a source of comedy.  This extends beyond sibling relationships to parent/child relationships, child/teacher relationships, and friend/friend relationships.

Since we need not look to far to see how ungodly this behavior is, how can we allow it occur?  Simply we cannot.  Yet, every parent knows that this behavior is not easily stopped.   As Christian parents, we can model godly behavior and challenge our children to demonstrate godly behavior.   We can also take action and discipline for ungodly behavior.

Due to my frustration over my preteen not being able to control her mouth toward her younger brother and seeing this same behavior demonstrated from him to his younger sister, I decided to take action.  Discipline was a temporary fix until the next time one annoyed the other.  I realized that the heart and thought life needed to change in order for a real transformation to take place.  I want my ugly little ducklings to be beautiful swans.

These thoughts and concerns gave birth to the Journal of Thankfulness and Loving Thoughts.  Each child has his or her own journal to list things they are thankful for daily.  I started out with three items and continually challenge them to increase the list.  They are also instructed to list their siblings and write one nice thing about him or her.  If I hear them complain about someone or insult someone, that person is then added to the mix.   I also add other family members as reminders of why they love them.

How do you make your own?

Supplies needed:

  • composition book or notebook
  • printable provided
  • scissors
  • tape

Simply print out the printable here.   Cut it out to fit the cover of your composition book or notebook and attach with tape.  I taped over the label to ensure it would not come off.

If you have a child too young to write, have her draw pictures of what she is thankful for and tell you one nice thing about her siblings a day which you will add to her journal.  It is important to write it down for her as you can remind her of what she said during rough times.

This is just one step that needs to be followed by prayer and properly modeled behavior.

Copyright © Richele McFarlin, Moms of Faith, All Rights Reserved





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

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How to Make a Creative Paper Plate Sculpture

March 23, 2010 By Faith_Mom Leave a Comment

By: Andrea Bullock

Looking for a great craft to get those creative juices flowing? How about something to keep the kids occupied on a rainy Saturday? There are many great crafts that children of all ages can do and enjoy.

This sculpture requires no major skills to create but some supervision is recommended for little hands. The aluminum foil can cut tiny (and not so tiny) fingers and no one wants a huge mess with glue. Otherwise this is a project that is suitable for a wide range of interests and ages.

Some items may require a hot glue gun in order to properly adhere. Small children should always be supervised when using a hot glue gun though it is possible to limit the project supplies to those that can be used with regular glue alone to reduce risks.

Supplies:

  • Paper plates (stiff or Styrofoam plates work best for this particular project)
  • Glue
  • Popsicle sticks
  • Odds and ends (the goal here is to find small things that have shape to provide a 3 dimensional quality to the project: Styrofoam half balls, small sections of wire screen, and coins are excellent choices)
  • Aluminum foil
  • Pencil
  • Grease pencil
  • Hole punch
  • Yarn

Instructions:

1) Turn paper plate so that the top of the plate is facing the table. The bottom of the paper place will be the surface you are working on.

2) Place various odds and ends items on the back of the plate to create a template or pattern to represent the finished product. The beauty of this project is that it is three-dimensional. Be creative and build things up for varying heights and textures.

3) Use the pencil to trace the outline of items and identify where various items in the sculpture should be glued. (Hint: if items are stacked mark pieces according to location on the plate and position in the stack-grease pencils may be used to write on metal pieces).

4) Use glue to attach items to the paper plate and to other craft items if needed. For many items regular glue will suffice. As the project is heightened, hot glue may be required. Some height is recommended; but avoid building the sculpture too tall as the entire project will ultimately be covered with foil.

5) Allow the glue to dry completely.

6) Cover the paper plate and sculpture with foil. Take extra care to really dig in and show off the nooks and crannies on the surface of the foil. It’s these subtle differences beneath the foil that really make this a neat project.

7) Use the hole punch to punch a hole in the top of the sculpture. String yarn through the hole and tie a knot.

8) Hang the sculpture where it can be appreciated by all. Enjoy!

Andrea Bullock is a freelance writer for Crafts for Kidlets, a fun craft idea blog for moms and dads who need something creative for the kids to do. http://www.craftsforkidlets.com





A CALL TO HOLINESS--> I would like to let you all know about a NEW Bible Study here at Moms of Faith. It will be available at the beginning of October 2010. WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE! In this seven week study we will cover topics like; What is holiness?, Who is called to it?, 4 Characteristics of Holy Living, Hindrances to Holiness and more! Click Here for more info and pricing.


Weightloss ebook <-- Note: I wrote an ebook filled with a TON of great info and advice on weightloss. It is actually how I was able to lose the weight I did and keep it off! I plan to use the SAME concepts again to get off the final pounds. If you would like a copy, I am offering it for ONLY $10, let me know (I will email you back in invoice). OR you can Click Here for the table of contents and more info about it.

If you would like to join the "Get Fit Challenge" we currently have going on here, it is free and as simple as reading a post each week and commenting on your status! Click Here to see all posts on this topic.


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