My husband and I didn't think we'd find ourselves trying to teach our four year old about modesty. We thought for sure that would be something to save for the pre-teen years. However, lately, we've found the influences she finds and sees in the world around her on a daily basis, have caused us to bump up our timeline for talks on being modest. We can't go shopping without seeing billboards or posters of scantily clad women. Magazines are full of pictures of women with exposed skin. Television--shows and commercials--are laden with sexified images of what a woman could, should, or wants to be perceived as. Even dolls are not leaving much to be desired. These did not go unnoticed by our daughter. We would find her pulling her shirts down, pulling her sleeves together to give her a "shoulderless" attire, rolling her pant legs up as far as they would go, etc. We continually asked her to stop modifying her wardrobe as such, and would ask her why she felt the need to do those things... … [Read more...]
21 Safety Tips For Girls and Women
We live in a scary world where sex trafficking is rampant and there is a real danger to women. Once you step foot out of your home, anything can happen. There are dangers out there waiting for girls and women. The best way to keep you out of harm's way is by following the safety tips below. Safety Tips For Girls and Women 1. At night, walk in well-lit areas. Be aware of tall hedges, high fences, open garages, and other areas where someone could hide. 2. If possible, walk against traffic. You'll be more noticeable if you need to flag someone down. 3. Women shouldn't walk alone when it's late, whether it's outside, or in an underground parking lot. Even the most well-lit underground parking lot may seem harmless; a perpetrator could very well stay hidden between parked cars ,or lay low in a parked car. If you must go to a store at night, make sure that you park as close as possible, and ask a manager to walk you to your car if you feel at all unsafe. Better yet--don't shop after … [Read more...]
12 Mom and Daughter Frugal Date Ideas
Finding and spending quality time with your daughter is important--especially when she's a teen. However, the younger you start the stronger the bond that you will build. Investing quality time in our children is the most important thing that we can do with our time! There are so many ways a Mom can spend some one on one time with daughter creating memories that both will cherish. Here are 12... Quality Time for Moms and Daughters 1. Spa Day Spend an afternoon at a spa getting a manicure and pedicure or you can make it a full day. You can take your daughter for lunch or find a spa that also offers lunch. If getting a mani/pedi is not your thing, you can find places that will teach your daughter about skin care and hair care. Or, have a spa day at home! 2. Shopping You don't have to break your bank account. There are many great deals out there if you shop smartly. Look for sales, seasonal changes, etc. It's a great opportunity to show your daughter how you can get more bang … [Read more...]
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