We had our third baby a little over two months ago. It has been a while since we've had a newborn in the house, and as prepared as I thought I was for the days and weeks after bringing him home, I was sorely mistaken. Being left wanting in what I've read, and been told about postpartum self-care; I'm here to offer up my own experiential advice. 5 Postpartum Self-Care Tips: 1. Be creative with your sleep. People will tell you that "sleep" is the most important postpartum self-care tip, and when baby sleeps, you should too. Believe me, I'd love to sleep when he sleeps. I also have a four year old, however, and a husband, and a home, and all of these things need to be taken care of. I'd also like to get a shower once in a while, which seems to only be possible when baby is asleep. Even if I could catch a few Z's while he is asleep, my four year old probably isn't going to nap on a whim. So we play games like "Let's pretend Mommy is a table, and you can have a tea party on the special … [Read more...]
Breastfeeding vs Formula
There's nothing more natural and beautiful than breastfeeding your baby. God created our breasts to feed and nourish our precious babies. I am pro breastfeeding, and breastfed both of my children. However, I also realize not all women choose to, or can breastfeed. So, another option is using formula. You may also be on the fence. I am hoping to help you make the right decision for you and your precious gift from the Lord. I truly believe, if at all possible though, breastfeeding is the absolute best option. Whether you choose to breastfeed, or formula feed your baby, there are advantages and disadvantages for the new mom and her baby. Let's look at both and see the comparisons. Advantages of Breastfeeding for Baby and Mom - Baby will be protected from developing allergies - It can protect baby from various illnesses because breast milk contains antibodies - It creates a very special bond between baby and mother - Mother's milk contains essential nutrients and vitamins for a … [Read more...]
Rearranging Priorities for a Season
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." - Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) Bringing home a new baby is a big adjustment for parents, especially the first one, and often requires cutting back on certain commitments to focus on the home. When my first child was about six months old, my church invited me to join the worship team. But after a month, I realized adding a two hour practice each week on top of singing in two services on Sunday was exhausting me. And it was the only activity I regularly participated in that got me out of the house! I eventually came to the conclusion that I had to quit the team, and I cried for days over the disappointment and sense of failure. Why couldn't I manage a few hours away from home? One evening my dad came over for dinner. Somehow we got on the topic about the decline in my daily Bible reading, lack of church involvement, and how I'd been feeling like a bad person. My dad's words gave me a new perspective. … [Read more...]
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